Directions
Melt the butter in the pan and add the flour. Cook it for a couple of minutes until you get a beige blob and can't see any white flour left in the pan.
Add a splash of milk and combine it. Keep splashing milk in and mixing until you get a smooth paste, then you can be less careful - add bigger splashes of milk (or even all that's left.
Whisk it over a fairly high heat (you want it bubbling) for a few minutes until it's smooth and shiny